When we are in long term relationships, they can end for a variety of different reasons. Sometimes, we grow apart from the person that we once loved and when this natural phenomenon takes place, it is in our best interests to get a divorce. We are not here to pass judgement on any relationship that ends because of relatively natural causes. However, the fading of physical attraction is not one of them.
This is an awful reason to leave someone and the man in this story was forced to learn this lesson the hardest way possible. He thought that he was going to “trade up” by leaving his wife for a younger woman. What he did not realize was that physical appearance is a very fleeting thing and that no one you meet is ever going to be able to look young forever.
A year after he had left her, he bumped into her once again and the full breadth of his mistake became abundantly clear. His ex wife had the glow that he thought she had lost and she had never looked more gorgeous to him. All of the wear and tear that had built up throughout the course of their marriage was gone from view.
He soon realized the reason for all of the things that had turned him off about her. Her extra pounds were merely caused by an inability to go to the gym because she was at home taking care of the kids. She did not have time to dress up for him, since all of her free time went towards taking care of their home. Her breasts sagged because she was a dedicated mother who changed diapers and breastfed.
All of this exertion did not put a damper on her enthusiasm and all she wanted was to spend time with her family. The man traded in her true beauty for something more superficial. He lost the woman who meant the world to him because he allowed himself to lose sight of what was truly important. She has found someone else to truly appreciate her and he will spend the rest of his life kicking himself for being so dumb.
This husband cannot turn back the hands of time and undo his awful mistake, but this video can serve as a valuable reminder to other men who are starting to let their eyes wander. Don’t ever fall into the same trap that this man let himself fall into. Love and appreciate your wife and look at the true reasoning for her physical appearance…..before you make a dumb decision like this man did.